| 11. One should know that suppressing anger is of the signs of the pious. Allah, the Exalted, says:
...who spend [in His way] in time of plenty and in time of hardship, and hold in check their anger, and pardon their fellow-men because Allah loves the doers of good. (3:134)
12. One should take heed when reminded. Ibn Abbas () reported that a man sought permission to enter upon Umar () and he allowed him to enter, and he said to him: 'O son of Khattab: 'You do not give us, nor do you judge between us with justice.' Umar () became angry, and he even thought of harming that man. Al-Harr b. Qais () said: 'O Leader of the Believers, Indeed Allah said to His Prophet ():
Make due allowance for man’s nature, and enjoin the doing of what is right; and leave alone all those who choose to remain ignorant. (7:199)
Indeed this man is ignorant.' The narrator said: 'By Allah, Umar () did not disobey this verse, for he strictly abided by the Book of Allah.' (Bukhari)
13. One should know the harms of anger: Alqamah b. Wa'il said that his father told him that he was sitting with the Messenger of Allah () and a man came pulling another with a cord. He said: 'O Messenger of Allah () this man killed my brother.' The Messenger of Allah () asked that man: 'did you kill his brother?' He said: 'Yes, I killed him.' He asked: 'How did you kill him?' He said: 'we were collecting wood, and he swore at me and angered me, so I struck him with my axe and I killed him.' (Muslim)
14. One should remain silent. The Prophet () said:
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