*One should not talk negatively about everything.
*One should be careful and not observe the following:
a. Asking persistently such that it brings shame upon the individual. The Prophet () said:
'Three things are disliked' The Prophet () mentioned among them: 'Asking continuously.' (Muslim)
b. Giving an answer immediately.
c. Giving one's opinion in every issue.
d. Talking to the ignorant
e. Belittling the listeners.
f. Talking about things which are of no concern to that individual. The Prophet () said:
'A sign of one's high merit in Islam is that he does not indulge in things which are of no concern to him.' (Tirmidthi)
g. Not listening to the speaker.
h. Scoffing at what the speaker has said.
i. Rushing to complete the speaker's statements.
j. Standing up from the sitting before the speaker completes his talk.
k. One should not interject to falsify what the speaker is saying.
l. One should not spread news he has heard before verifying it.
m. One should not talk in a rowdy, unruly manner. Allah says:
And tell my slaves to say that which is best. Indeed, Satan induces [dissension] among them. Indeed Satan is ever to mankind, a clear enemy. (17:53)
He, the Exalted, also says:
And speak to people good words. (2:83)
n. One should not blame someone in a harsh manner for mistakes they have done.
o. One should give a speech with all its necessary manners in mind.
p. One should not overlook the emotional aspects of a speech.
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