A'dthamal-laa'who aj'rak wa ahsana a'zaa'ak wa gha'fa'ra le'mai'ye'tik
Meaning: May Allah increase your reward, and may you be comforted in the best way, and may your deceased be forgiven.
Some scholars preferred this format, but the best format is that which the Prophet () said himself.
Some scholars gave condolences to a father whose young child died, saying: 'Part of you has entered Jannah, so excel in doing the good so that the rest of you is not deprived from it.'
People (in the past) have said that they have not heard a more eloquent condolence that the condolence given by Shabeeb b. Shaibah to al-Mahdi when his daughter (Yaqootah) passed away. He said: 'O Leader of the Believers, what Allah has in store for her is better than what you could have offered her and the reward of Allah is better for you. I ask Allah not to sadden or test you. I ask Him to reward you for your loss, and to make you patient, and not to overburden you with calamities, and not to remove a grace you are blessed with. The most righteous thing a man can hold patience over is something that he cannot regain.'
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