In fact I did not want to go in the presence of firdous, I knew she would have created problems in our life... did not want to give any chance... I know her very well...Firdous is slow poison and jealous woman as was told by her sister kauser and in fact she is.
Still I was in touch with kauser and Zia...from 2nd week of September I was trying kauser and her father’s numbers, but no reply I tried their numbers more than 30 times on zias birthday but no reply..
I knew that she has got manic depression attack that is why they are not responding as same thing used to happen when they were in London in 2010. They used to disappear and don’t even call back...
I was planning to go with my parents and relatives, but scared with kausers, her mother and sisters behavior; they would have insulted us, I knew she was in depression attack...
On 30th September 2010... Again I called kauser... no reply... tried her father number, Kauser received the call and asked me what happened, when are you going aboard, I said I am trying very soon will be going, she started shouting and screaming on me, her father took the phone and used bad language later kauser called by cousin and talk to him...
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Mon, Oct 31, 2011 at 2:23 AM
To: email@example.com, firstname.lastname@example.org, email@example.com
Dear All, Assalam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wa Barakatahu,
As you know that we have gone through the very hardest times our lives in the last two years. The last three and half months seemed to be quite fine, but suddenly from 30 September, 2011, when I called Kauser, things changed drastically. As I repeatedly tried to call Kauser in the last week (ie) before 30th September, she switched off her phone and neither did she call me nor mailed me.
Then I called on Yousuf uncle’s phone, where Kauser received the call. She asked me about my plans to go abroad. I said I am working on it, but she told why don’t I join her parents at Gulbarga? I told her I am not interested to stay at Gulbarga as there is no purpose for me staying there. Meanwhile during our talk the call got disconnected due to bad network. However I called back again on Yousuf uncle’s number and he lifted my call and spoke to me in a very disrespectful tone and asked me: What do you want? And TUMHARA BAAP KYA CHAHRA? I asked him what did you say? Again he repeated “TUMHARA BAAP KYA CHAHRA”? I asked him not to speak about my father in this tone. Even then he repeated the same words. I said I will not answer his question if he disrespects my father. Then Yousuf uncle in a sarcastic manner said “Tumhare WALID (FATHER) – ACHA TUMHARAY WALID KYA CHAH RAHE HAI? I said that not just I, my father my mom and everyone in my family wants me and Kauser to be together and live our lives happily. Then he replied, ‘we have given lots of opportunities to you to finalize and decide’.
He said we have turned off Kauser’s phone ........no! no! she has turned off her phone. It is three years now. Now don’t call Kauser and he hung the phone. He just don’t want to listen me and understand the actual truth. I have always extended my possible best to retain this relationship and at no point of time I ever delayed in deciding about leading a peaceful life with Kauser.
The next day, Ather bhai called my friend Ali (my friend who visited kauser manzil in june 11) and told him why doesn’t Shakeeb come and live in Gulbarga. He said that I take breakfast at 3 pm and that what can I do in my life? Later Kauser spoke to Ali and told him, which I never expected of her that, WHAT SHAKEEB CAN DERIVE FROM ME, IS HE GETTING IT FROM SOMEWHERE ELSE (KAUSER YOU KNOW WHAT IT MEANS, IT MEANS YOU ARE ACCUSING ME OF ZINA WITH A STRANGE WOMAN). Dear all I am deeply hurt and extremely disappointed with Kauser’s accusation.
Later she told Ali that they are planning to start a factory of Bricks manufacturing, and that I will be provided with my own cabin as a Manager, and that I could shuttle from Gulbarga to Hyderabad in 4 hours by road or Airport is shortly going to be opened in Gulbarga and I can fly to Hyderabad in 15 minutes. My parents can also come and live in Gulbarga. She told that they had arranged 100 people party on Zias birthday and that Shakeeb didn’t come in the party and Zia waited for him.
Dear all I didn’t know that 100 people were invited on Zia’s birthday since I was not invited in that party. Kauser complained to Ali that, father didn’t attend his son’s birthday whereas the truth is that the father was not invited in his son’s party.
WE HAVE UNDERSTOOD EACH AND EVERYTHING LONG BACK, BUT HAVE BEEN DEALING WITH THE SITUATION PATIENTLY.
My question to my dear wife Kauser is that, you being a teacher, got to think on your own, as you are an educated lady and have dealt with the lions of John lyon school, you must know what is right and wrong, bad and good for yourself and for your family (husband & son) and should not listen to anybody else.
Since I am in India, I have been managing with my closest relatives and dealing with them in a diplomatic manner and tried my best to keep my family matter between us. But now this matter is not in my hands in the last four weeks I have got the calls from UK, USA, SAUDI ARABIA, HYDERABAD AND GULBARGA, everyone is asking about my family matters. So many people already know everything since the birth of Zia and what has been happening in my life.
This message is for all conspirators who are trying to destroy my family, don’t you forget that you also have spouses, kids, grand children. What if Allah gets angry with you and your children, for you are trying to destroy my family. Can you dare you fight with Allah. Don’t forget, that ALLAH IS WITH ME. Allah is watching everything.
Allah says in the Quran “INNALLAHA SARIUL HISAAB” (ALLAH BUHAT JALD HISAAB LENE WALA HAI)
At one place he says INNALLAHA SHADIDUL IQAAB (ALLAH BUHAT SHAKT HISAAB LENE WALA HAI).
Even at this point, I can’t even think of cursing anyone, (Because i got this kind of education from my parents) I know that Allah does justice to everyone. He can’t do injustice to anyone. My beloved Prophet, Mohammed (PBUH) said, if someone did ZULM on you and if you curse them you have taken your revenge. I leave it to Allah, He is the best planner and rewards one’s deeds.
My beloved Prophet Mohammed (PBUH) said MAZLOOM KI BADDUA SE BACHO - BECAUSE THERE IS NONE BETWEEN MAZLOOM AND ALLAH
Just imagine the situation that I am going through, my wife and son are separated from me, I never had an opportunity to play with my son Zia. My innocent son is kept away from his father’s affection, Allah is watching everything.The grandson is kept away from his grand parents. My maternal grand mother is in Makkah for Hajj, she expressed her desire so many times to me that her only wish is to meet Kauser and see Zia. She left for Makkah to perform hajj with an unfulfilled desire in her heart of meeting my wife and son. For if, Allah gets angry and says KUN (BE) and it will............. ‘just think about the fate of the wrong doers…….
My mother cried several times longing to meet her daughter in law and grandson. My father is advised by doctors not to travel due to his heart condition. Otherwise my parents could have travelled to Gulbarga to meet Kauser and Zia.
Kauser I invited you in the middle of Ramadhan to come to Hyderabad and celebrate Eid with my parents. You said ‘NO’. You told me that when you came to India, I left the country and gone. You told me that if my parents want to meet you, they must come to Gulbarga and meet you.
Kauser even after all this, we had buried everything of the past and were looking forward for our bright future, but you tried to dig out the old things, which were nothing but flight of your conspirator’s imagination.
But we always kept ourself cool and remained quite......
Kauser you don’t know what you are losing - Love and respect of all of us. Everyone ask about you and Zia. You are the only daughter in law of my fathers family. My mother is the eldest daughter in her fathers family of 7 sons and daughters I am the only grandson in my maternal family who got married..............
Kauser your family is here…… with your husband and his family members. As a loving and doting husband, I tell you to think about yourself and your family. Zia needs both of us, he is the lovely gift to us from Allah; we have to be thankful to Him.
Again this message is for those who are directly and indirectly involved in destroying my family and trying to keep my son away from me - What if, Allah snatches your spouses, your children, what if your children spouses take away their babies from the labour room without showing there faces to them.
My life totally changed from the labour room with in an hour. No one can imagine the situation, I have gone through.
ALLAH SAYS IN THE QURAN:-
INNAKA LA TUQLIFUL MIAAD (YAQEENAN TUH WADA KHILAFI NAHIN KARTA)
INNAL LAHA SARIUL HISAAB (YAQEENAN ALLAH TALA JALD HISAAB LEYNE WALA HAI)
My brother told me that he can’t believe how I am managing and dealing with all these situations. He tells me that he prays to Allah to be like me in patience, for he says that I never lose my patience and always behaves in good manner. He says that feels proud to be my brother. I told him never ever use the word proud, for Allah doesn’t like those who are proud........... I quoted him, don’t you see the presidents and kings of their respective countries, once they ruled their countries and now begging to spare them, Allah gives opportunities and kingdom and sees what they can do with them, if anyone who is unthankful, he punishes him in a way that no one can understand. I told my brother, don’t you read in the Quran what Allah says, “don’t you see what Allah has done to the people of His prophets, who deny and remained unthankful to Him, don’t you see what Allah has done to the people of Saba, they had plenty of food but they were not thankful to Allah and Allah punished them.
Always be thankful to Allah what ever he provides and never be unthankful to him.
You never know how when and where his wrath falls, be thankful to him when you do night, be thankful to him when you do morning, always thankful to him, even if you get hiccup, be thankful to him................
May Allah give Hidaya to all of us and guide us to be good human beings
Ameen summa ameen
Mon, Oct 31, 2011 at 7:48 PM
To: firstname.lastname@example.org, email@example.com, firstname.lastname@example.org
I have read your e-mail. You have taken quotations from the Glorious Quran and attempted to strike fear in the hearts of others, but nowhere have you applied them to yourself. Have you not realised your duties as a father and as a husband? Uptil now you have not provided any financial support for Zia and myself. You owe me money for Zia's baby shopping. I only claim that as you insisted you would pay for it. Instead you left me with a significant credit card bill.
I have only ever desired for you to be a loyal life partner, as I looked to the example of your Ikram Uncle. As you have stated "I am not interested to stay in Gulbarga as there is no purpose for me staying there." and made numerous claims in the clouds, however, words are free. Hence, you provide me with no other option. If I am to consider joining you, firstly you must pay me my outstanding mehar, as agreed at the time of our nikkah (£2100).
This will illustrate your capability of taking care of Zia and I.
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They disappear again, still I tried to contact them, and so many times my calls were received by someone. They made me listen zias voice and used to disconnect the phone.
Once I heard Zia was telling something (I think he was holding the phone) I said Zia this is your daddy, baba, baba, how are you? He replied Baba, Baba...phone Baba- then heard him crying and phone disconnected.........ITS CRUELTY, BARBARISM, AGGRESSION, INHUMANITY, WORST THAN HOLOCOUST, WORST THAN WORST LIKE ANYTHING IN THIS UNIVERSE.
THE WHOLE HUMANITY IS EMBARASSED, WHAT THESE WOMEN DONE TO ME, MY SON, MY PARENTS, MY WHOLE FAMILY...TO THE UMMAH AND ISLAM, TO THE HUMANITY, EVERYONE IS HURT AND SAD BECAUSE OF THESE SATANIC ACTS BY MRS SHAMS FATIMA SYED, MS.KAUSER FATIMA SYED AND DR FIRDOUS FATIMA SYED...EVERY CREATURE IN THIS UNIVERSE IS NTH TIME EMBARASSED AND NTH TIME ASHAMED WHAT THESE THREE WOMEN DONE IN THE NAME OF HIJAB, ISLAM, ALLAH, AND PROPHET MOHAMMED (PBUH)
Playing with the feelings, affection and love of a father....and a small child.
Playing with the feelings, affection and love of a small boy, who met his, father 3 times and in the first meeting he was calling me BABA BABA.
ALLAH IS WATCHING EVERYTHING.
I want to give so many references here from Holy Quran and Hadees, but no use...especially for shams Fatima Syed, kauser Fatima syed and Dr.firdous Fatima syed.
I was scared to call kauser and talk to her, I knew if she receives the call, she will shout, insult, will call me beggar, faqeer, fuc**r, bast**d, etc.
But still tried, at least I could have heard my son’s voice. I was so scared in fact I am scared with kauser, her mother and sister. .Once I was hardly meters away with kauser and Zia, but was scared to go near her, she would have started insulting me again in front everyone... many people were there around I kept quiet and left the place dishearten without meeting my son…I am scared, I am scared, nth time scared with these women, some people from Gulbarga tell me...who see my son... they tell me about him....
Every second of my life I have been missing my son,my son with whom I can’t play for a while.
(no subject) 4 messages
From: Shakeeb Khan <email@example.com>
Date: Mon, Jan 23, 2012 at 5:01 PM
To: firstname.lastname@example.org Cc: email@example.com, miraj syed <firstname.lastname@example.org>, email@example.com, firstname.lastname@example.org, email@example.com, firstname.lastname@example.org
I have been trying your mobile number for the last two days, its just ringing.(Ather bhai mobile is not working and Iqbal bhai(badi khalas son in law) says he will inform you that i called him.
Akram uncle and Munzoor Aunty are in Hyderabad, we were planning to come gulbarga and meet all of you,
both of them are very upset and not in a position to leave hyderabad as both of them sisters expired recently,
people are coming to them for condolenses,
they are leaving this sunday,
if all of you come to hyderabad we can sit and talk about our family matter,
this is the golden opportunity to meet, sit and discuss about it.
I checked your e mail but could not reply, i was very busy,
Inshallah we will proceed what we have decided, I am trying my best to go abroad,
As far as my In laws(in gulbarga) are concern, they lie when they open their mouth, May Allah put them on the right path and give them some sense to decide what is right and what is wrong,
Inshallah speak to you soon
rest everything is fine here
Fri, Mar 16, 2012 at 12:02 AM
To: Shakeeb Khan
ASAK. We met Iqbal in Dllas. Though he agrees that you and Kauser should live in a flat in Hyderabad and decide among yourselves. This cannot happen due to Shams and he also agrees. Iqbal suggested that you should keep the dialogues going on and keep speaking to Kauser. This way Kauser will think that you haven,t forgotton her and she would probably listen to ou. Iqbal was suggesting that you should try to go there and stay at least one day and keep talking to her and your Zia. We said that they never answer the telephone and do not reply to your e-mails. Still Iqbal suggested that you should go there at least for a day and meet your family. Only Allh knows what to do and we trust Allah that he will come to your aid and you have suffered so much and are still very patient. We also pray for your success. We are meeting with Iqbal today and I will write, if there is anything new. Love to you all. I will be in touch.withyou.