About their problems. They try to find answers for their problems together. For example

confuse sasirtmak, kafasini karistirmak; birbirine karistirmak, karistirmak

debt alacak, borç; borçlu olma, borçlanma

Departure hareket, gidis, kalkis

desertion i. 1. terketme, terk. 2. askerlikten kaçma, firar.

Despair umutsuzluk,(of ile) umudunu kesmek

guilty suçlu; günahkâr

identity benzerlik, özdeslik; kimlik

ignorenaldirmamak, önem vermemek, bilmemezlikten gelmek, görmemezlikten gelmek

Impulsive itici; atilgan, düsüncesizce hareket eden

minority azinlik

obscure anlasilmasi güç, kapali, anlasilmaz; karanlik; pek taninmamis, silik, anlasilmaz hale getirmek, karistirmak; gizlemek, gözden saklamak, örtmek

Pack bohça, çikin; paket; kutu; sürü; (iskambil) deste; dolgu; buzla, buz örtüsü, bavul hazirlamak; bohçalamak, paket yapmak, paketlemek; sarmak; tika basa doldurmak; (yiyecek) kutulara koymak, konservelemek; koruyucu bir madde ile doldurmak, sarmak, kaplamak

Pride gurur; kendini begenmislik; onur, özsaygi, haysiyet; övünme, iftihar; kendisiyle övünülen kisi ya da sey, övünç; (on ile) övünmek

reject reddetmek, kabul etmemek, geri çevirmek; bir tarafa atmak, iskartaya çikarmak, atmak; ret dosyasi, ret kütügü

Root kök; köken;

upset devirmek; devrilmek; bozmak, altüst etmek; üzmek, nesesini kaçirmak, telaslandirmak; (midesini) bozmak; dövmek; üzgün, üzüntülü, tedirgin; rahatsiz, hasta; (mide) bulanmis, bozuk; ters uçus

172 FRIE-NDSHIP
Friends play an important part in our lives, and although we may take the fact of friendship for granted, we often don't clearly understand how we make friends. While we get on well with a number of people, we are usually friends with only a very few - for example, the average among students is about 6 per person.

Moreover, a great many relationships come under the term 'friendship'. In all cases, two people like one another and enjoy being together. However, the degree of closeness between them and the reasons for their mutual interest vary greatly. In other words, there are many reasons for why two people share the same interest in each other. At the very beginning, much depends on how people meet and on positive first impressions. As we get to know people, we take into consideration things like age, physical attractiveness, economic and social status and intelligence. Although these factors may not seem very important, it is difficult to be friends when there is a big age difference or when the backgrounds are different.

As we get closer, we become interested in actual behaviour, facial expression and tone of voice. Friends will stand closer together and will spend more time looking at each other than people who just know each other. Smiles and soft voices also express friendliness. It is because they may send out the wrong signals that shy people often have difficulty in making friends. To illustrate, their nervousness may be mistaken for unfriendliness. People who do not look at the eyes of those they are speaking to are not trusted. However, those people may simply lack confidence.

Some relationships become stronger with argument and discussion, but usually intimate friends have similar ideas and beliefs and share the same attitudes and interests. Although some people become close friends immediately, it usually takes time to reach this point. The more intimate people become, the more they rely on one another. People want to do friends favours and hate to disappoint them.

There are no friendship ceremonies but the support and understanding that results from shared experiences and feelings seems to create a powerful relationship which can overcome differences in background and age.

attractiveness  çekicilik, alımlılık.

Ceremony tören, merasim; resmiyet

closeness  yakinlik; siklik; darlik

Confidence güven; sir, gizli sey

consideration "i. 1. nezaket, saygı, düşünce. 2. üzerinde düşünme. 3. karşılık, bedel; ücret. 4. önem. 5. itibar, saygınlık. 6. etken, faktör. "