The physical act of abandonment is a traumatic and alienating experience for a child.
The physical act of abandonment is a traumatic and alienating experience for a child.
Most respondents believed that an abandoned child, who grows up in an African family who believes in ancestor, will live a difficult life.
Beyond their sense of loss and rejection, they will be unable to connect with their ancestors, as they have no knowledge of their father’s name and through this, their family’s ancestors.
Not knowing ones ancestors prevents you from fulfilling many of your traditional roles and rituals effectively:
These include paying damages for a child, paying lebola, celebrating big milestones such as matriculating, graduating or getting a new job.
Ancestors are also important for guidance and support, for understanding where illness may come from, and assisting a person in making important life decisions.
