for their own group only. Most of the Preface is
ex post facto on something somebody else wrote.
who prints or performs it.
See Message 3713 on the "four fair use factors"
for some of the copyright issues involved.
make a mess of things when we do this. There were
developed.
But the most basic right in the entire AA program,
is "the right of the group to be wrong" (grin).
And there is no rule that an AA group has to read the
Preface at an AA meeting. An AA group can read
done, going back to the 1930's, 40's, and 50's.
That is an essential part of AA's Historic Heritage.
(lists at immuneit.com)
If you look through the Twelve Traditions, you'll
see no mention of the preamble.
Read over traditions 2 and 4. Groups can largely run
themselves as they see fit, and remember that AAWS is
their trusted servant, not their boss.
Often, groups get caught up in distractions like
arguing over wording or whether to have an anniversary
party, etc. Some would say its a sign of a healthy
group. Don't let something like this be a wedge, but
don't let those with seniority run amok either.
Mike
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From: "Debi Ubernosky"
(dkuber1990 at verizon.net)
4. Each group should be autonomous except in matters
affecting other groups or A.A. as a whole.
Read the long version in the 12x12 for more insight!
debi the service junkie
sober in Aggieland
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++++Message 3838. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Group conscience meetings
From: Debi Ubernosky . . . . . . . . . . . . 11/2/2006 3:05:00 PM
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There is a pamphlet available from AAWS called The
AA Group which is available free for download at
http://www.aa.org/en_services_for_members.cfm?PageID=100.
This pamphlet covers everything a group ever needs to
know about how to be a group and conduct its business.
In fact, there is a wealth of service information
available for download under the "Services for Members"
link
http://www.aa.org/en_services_for_members.cfm and from
"Service Material"
http://www.aa.org/en_services_for_members.cfm?PageID=98
on that page.
All of this information is very helpful in understanding
Alcoholics Anonymous.
Happy Reading!
debi the service junkie
sober in Aggieland
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++++Message 3839. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Group conscience meetings
From: Doug Hart . . . . . . . . . . . . 11/2/2006 6:33:00 PM
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Group conscience and business meetings are well
covered by the AA brochure, The AA Group, which is
now online. These topics start on p. 27 at the
link below.
Doug Hart
http://aa.org/en_services_for_members.cfm?PageID=100
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++++Message 3840. . . . . . . . . . . . RE: Group conscience meetings
From: Art Sheehan . . . . . . . . . . . . 11/2/2006 11:44:00 PM
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Hi Ernie
There are 2 pieces of AA literature that can be helpful for guidelines on
group conscience/business meetings and the role of the chairperson or
moderator in those meetings:
(1) "The AA Group" pamphlet (I'll cite from the 10/05
version). It contains
guidelines for an informed group conscience, AA business meetings, voting in
the home group and resolving group problems. These topics are all in the
index at the beginning of the pamphlet.
(2) "The AA Service Manual" (I'll cite from the 8/05
version). It contains
guidelines for a "sharing session." The group
conscience/business meeting
should be conducted as a sharing session.
Both of the above pieces of literature can be downloaded from the AA.org web
site as searchable PDF files. Information below can be found by doing key
word string searches with the current free Adobe Reader that can be
downloaded from Adobe.com.
It's useful to encourage an understanding and appreciation of what
"informed
group conscience" means as opposed to just "group
conscience." It's also
useful to encourage an understanding of what "substantial
unanimity" means
as opposed to "simple majority."
Most groups have what is called a "group conscience" or
"business meeting"
where group matters are discussed and acted upon and where group service
positions are elected. It's also a meeting where group members can
receive
reports from group service positions and where members can express their
concerns and receive information from other group members.
The first part of Tradition 2 states that a group's ultimate authority
is a
loving God as He may express Himself in our group conscience. The idea
sounds great - but it doesn't happen automatically - it takes the
cooperation of the members involved in the group conscience discussions to
ensure that God gets the opportunity to express Himself rather than one or
more members manipulating the meeting to their own ends and agenda and then
claiming that God made the decision.
"The AA Group" pamphlet adds an important word to the term
"group
conscience" and suggests that the goal should be to seek an
"informed group
conscience." It also asks the question "What is an Informed AA
Group
Conscience?" and answers it by stating:
"The group conscience is the collective conscience of the group
membership
and thus represents substantial unanimity on an issue before definitive
action is taken. This is achieved by the group members through the sharing
of full information, individual points of view and the practice of AA
principles. To be fully informed requires a willingness to listen to
minority opinions with an open mind.
The pamphlet goes on to state "On sensitive issues, the group works
slowly -
discouraging formal motions until a clear sense of its collective view
emerges. Placing principles before personalities, the membership is wary of
dominant opinions. Its voice is heard when a well-informed group arrives at
a decision. The result rests on more than a "yes" or
"no" count - precisely
because it is the spiritual expression of the group conscience. The term
"informed group conscience" implies that pertinent information has
been
studied and all views have been heard before the group votes."
This is not a play on words - it's really an appeal to AA members who
are
participating in the formation of group conscience to do so in a way that
ensures that the final decision is "informed" and reflects
unity.
With AA membership comes the right to vote on issues that affect the group.
It's a process that forms the very cornerstone of AA's service
structure. In
the 12 Concepts for World Service it's called "the right of
participation"
and appears in Concept 4.
In Concept 5, it further states "Throughout our world service
structure, a
traditional "Right of Appeal" ought to prevail, thus assuring us
that
minority opinion will be heard and that petitions for the redress of
personal grievances will be carefully considered.
As with all group-conscience matters, each AA member has 1 vote; and this,
ideally, is voiced through the home group. It's as simple as the idea
that
the residents of NY City elect the mayor of NY City and the residents of
Chicago do not elect the mayor of NY City. Each elects their own mayors and
resolves their own matters locally. A vote should be available to members
who, by their attendance, (of perhaps at least one month) have established
the group as their home group. Otherwise someone can stack a group
conscience meeting with recruited votes of AA members having a different
home group (regrettably it does happen - "we are not saints").
The bottom line is that a group conscience decision should reflect 2
important qualities: 1st, that it is informed, 2nd, that it reflects
"substantial unanimity." Some helpful ways to achieve this are:
1. Formal motions should not be presented to the group conscience or
business meeting until a matter is first fully discussed. Don't rush
into a
decision or ramrod it through. By the same token filibustering should not be
permitted either. Each participant in the discussions should have a fixed,
and reasonably brief, amount of time to speak and then let someone else have
the opportunity to speak.
2. Discussions should be free of legalistic arguments, debates and personal
accusations (everything benefits from restraint of pen and tongue). It also
helps to ask the participants to not keep saying the same things over and
over. It's ok to just say that I agree with what so and so said.
3. Minority or dissenting views should receive due respect and courtesy.
4. When a formal motion is presented it should, if possible, be worded in a
manner that tries to unite or bring together the collective views expressed
by the members participating in the discussions.
Admittedly, compromise isn't always easy especially when someone is
very
passionate about a particular matter. However, a willingness to cooperate in
both give and take and a respect for the views of others will always move
the discussions in the right direction and move the decisions toward unity
and fellowship. One of the considerations that should be apparent for
arriving at an informed group conscience is that the way something is
discussed can be just as important as what is being discussed.
The AA Service Manual contains information for conducting something called a
"sharing session." There are many things in AA that can be
conducted as a
sharing session, whether it's a committee meeting, a group inventory
and
very importantly a group conscience or business meeting. In a sharing
session, everyone has a chance to use their experience, strength and hope to
contribute ideas and opinions about the matter being discussed. The format
of a sharing session is aimed at drawing out the ideas of even the shyest
participant, and keeps anyone from dominating the meeting. Each person
offers an opinion, and never needs to defend it. It also helps to avoid
debates and arguments.
It's important that the chairperson, or moderator, of a sharing
session
functions as a timekeeper or facilitator and not as an active participant in
the discussions. A meeting chair's primary duties are to try to keep
the
meeting moving along and encouraging the involvement of the meeting
participants. Sometimes it's useful to ask the District Committee
Member
(DCM) or other member of the Area Committee to serve as a neutral and
non-participating chairperson, particularly if a matter is of significant
importance or has the potential to be volatile or divisive.
To keep a meeting moving along, each member participating may talk, in turn,
for a specified time (2 minutes is typical - or whatever the group agrees
upon). Usually no one is permitted to speak a second time on the same
subject until all who wish to have had an opportunity to speak for the first
time. When multiple rounds of discussion occur it is often useful to limit
those rounds to 1 minute of discussion per member.
Discussions should go around among the attendees one at a time in the same
order for each round. Members who do not wish to speak can just pass but
should be offered the opportunity to speak during their turn. No one should
be allowed to just jump in and start talking or debating. In particular, the
chairperson or moderator should not engage in the discussions. If he/she
wishes to join the discussions then someone else should chair or moderate
the meeting. It's very important to avoid a situation where a member
speaks
and then the chair speaks a member speaks and then the chair speaks again,
etc., etc. It's a formula for failure where the chair is doing little
more
than holding court. That's why it's important that the chair not
be an
active participant in discussions.
To achieve what is called "substantial unanimity" some matters
(particularly
very important or sensitive matters) should be resolved by more than just a
simple majority vote or they can turn out to be very divisive. In many cases
a simple majority vote does little more than divide the group into 2
opposing factions and that is not healthy to group unity.
Typically in Area and District service committees and in the General Service
Conference, matters under discussion usually require a 2/3 majority for
adoption (and in some rare but very important cases a 3/4 majority). This is
not done to make things more difficult to do. It's done to ensure that
the
decision has the backing of most of the participants and reflects
substantial unanimity. It also helps individual members to learn how to
compromise.
If a loving God expressing Himself in the group conscience is our ultimate
authority, it follows that AA leaders are not authorities in the usual
sense, but are rather servants and instruments of the group conscience. Then
who is in charge in AA? AA is a spiritual movement and the ultimate
authority in AA is the spiritual concept of the informed group conscience.
Almost every group and Fellowship problem can be solved through the process
of an informed group conscience and a respect for AA principles. For all
involved, a good sense of humor, cooling off periods, patience, courtesy,
willingness to listen and to wait - plus a sense of fairness and trust in a
"Power greater than ourselves" - have been found to be far more
effective
than legalistic arguments or personal accusations or "frothy emotional
appeal."
Cheers
Arthur
-----Original Message-----
From: AAHistoryLovers@yahoogroups.com
[mailto:AAHistoryLovers@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Ernest Kurtz
Sent: Thursday, November 02, 2006 9:23 AM
To: AAHistoryLovers@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [AAHistoryLovers] Group conscience meetings
A question has been posed in a different setting:
"Do you have any guidelines, electronically available,
on the subject of group conscience and group business
meetings?. In particular the role of the Chairperson?"
I trust some AAHL members will be interested in
the topic; responses may also be posted directly to
"JOHN e REID",
(jre33756 at bigpond.net.au)
Kell C,
(kellcheevers at hotmail.com)
or Denise H Brisbane Traditions.
(jha at powerup.com.au)
Thanks for this group's help.
ernie kurtz
(kurtzern at umich.edu)
Yahoo! Groups Links
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++++Message 3841. . . . . . . . . . . . RE: Re: Who were Jim and Eddie the
atheists?
From: timderan . . . . . . . . . . . . 11/2/2006 8:40:00 PM
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"So to the person who originally posted the question:
"Eddie the atheist" "
There is also a reference to "Eddie the Maniac" in Pass It On.
Could this be who the person was thinking of?
tmd
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++++Message 3842. . . . . . . . . . . . Box 4-5-9: searchable computer files
are available
From: Art Sheehan . . . . . . . . . . . . 11/2/2006 11:52:00 PM
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Hey Fellows
Past issues of Box 4-5-9 going back to Oct/Nov 2001
are available on the AA.org web site as searchable
PDF files that can be downloaded.
Go to aa.og
Click on Services for Members
Click on Box 4-5-9 News and Notes from GSO
A link to the current issue is listed
Click on the drop-down list to access past issue
Cheers
Arthur
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++++Message 3844. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Who were Jim and Eddie the
atheists?
From: Glenn Chesnut . . . . . . . . . . . . 11/8/2006 3:26:00 PM
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Correction to the page number:
In Kurz, "Not God," note 22 on PAGE 375,
(NOT page 275 as was given in Message #3833):
"Ed" in the 12 and 12 was probably Jim Burwell.
From Tom E.
(tom2cor134 at yahoo.com)
Ernest Kurtz, author of "Not God," in note 22 on
page 375, said that the man who was given the
pseudonym of "Ed" in the story in the 12 and 12,
Tradition Three, pp. 143-145 (in the current edition)
was probably Jim Burwell.
So to the person who originally posted the question:
"Eddie the atheist" may simply have been the same
person as "Jim the atheist," if the person who told
you about "Ed the atheist" was thinking about the
story in the 12 and 12.
Jim had a profound impact on the writing of the
Big Book in terms of how God was presented.
"The Vicious Cycle" is his story in the Big Book.
- - - -
http://www.a-1associates.com/aa/Authors.htm
has Nancy Olson's short biographies of
Jim Burwell -- "The Vicious Cycle"
Henry (Hank) Parkhurst -- "The Unbeliever"
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++++Message 3845. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Who were Jim and Eddie the
atheists?
From: man_dred . . . . . . . . . . . . 11/6/2006 1:47:00 PM
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There was another atheist named Eddie R. who Dr. Bob
and Bill worked with throughout the summer of 1935.
(Dr. Bob and the Good Oldtimers, pp.77 -79)
He was not well known and there was not much
written about this Eddie. He was from Cleveland/Akron
area. They gave up on him and had their first success
with Bill Dotson.
Eddie reportedly showed up at Dr. Bob's funeral with
approx. 1 year of sobriety according to Bob Smith Jr.
(Smitty).
Bill heard from Eddie again about seven years later.
Although this particular Eddie was an atheist, and
it's possible this is the one you mentioned... Jim
Burwell was the notorious atheist in the 3rd Tradition
chapter of the 12x12, who was referred to as "Ed."
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