q. One should be passionate in his speech.
r. One should not be heedless in relation to his fundamentals.
s. One should try his best to uphold the good and return to the truth when it becomes clear to him.
t. One should not dish out rulings for/against a certain thing at the beginning of his speech.
u. One should stick to his topic and not go off topic.
v. One should not talk about issues which are of no benefit.
w. One should not be extremely critical of everything.
x. One should not complain to people about everything.
y. One should not talk excessively about women.
z. One should not excessively take oaths. Allah, the Exalted, says:
But guard your oaths40. (17:53)
a. One should not ask one who is sitting to serve the others.
b. One should not show that he is bored or uninterested with what one is saying in a sitting.
c. One should not do something which is discomforting to the rest of those who are in the sitting; such as spitting, coughing, playing with one's beard or moustache.
d. One should not do wrongful things in the sitting area.
e. One should not sit in an immoral manner while sitting with others in a sitting.
f. One should not sit in the middle of the sitting area.
g. One should not force himself, or unnaturally try to be eloquent in his speech. The Prophet () said:
'A time will come when people will eat with their tongues the way cows eat from the earth.'41 (Saheeh al-Jami)
*Do not convey what is said if you cannot convey it in its entirety.
*One should cover up for his brother. The Messenger of Allah () said:
'No one conceals the mistakes of his brother in this world, but Allah will conceal his mistakes on the Day of Resurrection.' (Saheeh al-Jami)
*One should not scoff at others and revert to name calling. Allah, the Exalted, says:
And do not insult one another and do not call each other by offensive nicknames. (49:11)
He, the Exalted, also says:
Woe to every scorner and mocker. (104:1)
The Messenger of Allah () said:
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